Build your Relationship to last
Relationships are made beautiful when two people come together to share their love for one another. Often, due to fickle differences, the love shared gets lost. This article will teach young lovers on how to keep the flame of their relationship aglow.
1. Honesty
Be honest in your relationship. When two people, from different walks of life, come together to share their love, honesty is the only thing that keeps the relationship from falling apart. With honesty comes trust and with trust, love grows over time. Sowing the seeds of dishonesty will only lead to heartache and broken relationships.
2. Acceptance
Don’t hold impossibly high ideals, when it comes to assessing your partner. It will only lead to disappointment. You should understand that every individual is different and it is their imperfections that make them endearing to us over time. So what if your girlfriend hates playing video games, or thinks that your friends are stupid. Everyone is entitled to their opinion. Accept her for what she is and you will see how strong your relationship grows with time.
3. Communicate
Most relationships go awry because both parties in the relationship assume their partner would automatically know what they are feeling. Instead, why don’t you try telling her how she makes you feel? Communication is the key to any relationship. You are not all-knowing, so without communicating your feelings to her, do not expect a long -lasting relationship.
4. God, the author of marriage must be a part of the marriage
"The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband." (1Co_7:3)
When a husband loves his wife in the ways of the Lord, he is giving up his own life for that of his wife, to make sure her needs are met and taken care of, above his own. When both the husband and the wife are practicing their duties properly it keeps the relationship structured, organized, and spiritually blessed.
"Wives submit to your husbands as to the Lord". (Eph_5:22) It is a wife's duty to submit to her husband.In God's eyes men and women are equal heirs of His kingdom, and that's all that matters! God chose to make Eve out of Adams flesh and bones, which illustrates that in marriage man and woman symbolically become "one flesh". The goal in marriage should always be of "oneness" between husband and wife. When a Christian wife rebels against her duty of marriage she is rebelling against God and His plan for her in the marriage, consequently the marriage will have difficulties, much like what we are seeing today. A man needs to be treated like a man for him to be able to properly carry out his God-given calling.
"Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her". (Eph_5:25) Husbands are commanded to love their wives-in the same way Christ loved and gave himself up for us.
Let's stop all the fussing and fighting and lets start honoring God with our marriage. May God Almighty Bless you in Abundance.
5. Maintain Sexual Attraction
In a relationship, sex is beyond the physical gratification. It is the means by which two individuals express their feelings for each another. So, it is very
important to be able to keep the passion ignited. Sex is the perfect way to tell your partner how she makes you feel. Not only does it bring two individuals closer, but also bridges any significant gap that might’ve cropped up over time. As the years go by, you'll keep revisiting and re-imagining the passion you have for each other. And if you keep at it, you'll have a sex life that transcends your relationship’s lack of newness and the physical changes that come with time. A relationship is like a delicate flower. It needs tender and loving care to blossom. By following the above-mentioned methods, you are much closer to ensure that your relationship lasts a long time, even eternity.
Relationships are made beautiful when two people come together to share their love for one another. Often, due to fickle differences, the love shared gets lost. This article will teach young lovers on how to keep the flame of their relationship aglow.
1. Honesty
Be honest in your relationship. When two people, from different walks of life, come together to share their love, honesty is the only thing that keeps the relationship from falling apart. With honesty comes trust and with trust, love grows over time. Sowing the seeds of dishonesty will only lead to heartache and broken relationships.
2. Acceptance
Don’t hold impossibly high ideals, when it comes to assessing your partner. It will only lead to disappointment. You should understand that every individual is different and it is their imperfections that make them endearing to us over time. So what if your girlfriend hates playing video games, or thinks that your friends are stupid. Everyone is entitled to their opinion. Accept her for what she is and you will see how strong your relationship grows with time.
3. Communicate
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Most relationships go awry because both parties in the relationship assume their partner would automatically know what they are feeling. Instead, why don’t you try telling her how she makes you feel? Communication is the key to any relationship. You are not all-knowing, so without communicating your feelings to her, do not expect a long -lasting relationship.
4. God, the author of marriage must be a part of the marriage
"The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband." (1Co_7:3)
When a husband loves his wife in the ways of the Lord, he is giving up his own life for that of his wife, to make sure her needs are met and taken care of, above his own. When both the husband and the wife are practicing their duties properly it keeps the relationship structured, organized, and spiritually blessed.
"Wives submit to your husbands as to the Lord". (Eph_5:22) It is a wife's duty to submit to her husband.In God's eyes men and women are equal heirs of His kingdom, and that's all that matters! God chose to make Eve out of Adams flesh and bones, which illustrates that in marriage man and woman symbolically become "one flesh". The goal in marriage should always be of "oneness" between husband and wife. When a Christian wife rebels against her duty of marriage she is rebelling against God and His plan for her in the marriage, consequently the marriage will have difficulties, much like what we are seeing today. A man needs to be treated like a man for him to be able to properly carry out his God-given calling.
"Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her". (Eph_5:25) Husbands are commanded to love their wives-in the same way Christ loved and gave himself up for us.
Let's stop all the fussing and fighting and lets start honoring God with our marriage. May God Almighty Bless you in Abundance.
5. Maintain Sexual Attraction
In a relationship, sex is beyond the physical gratification. It is the means by which two individuals express their feelings for each another. So, it is very
important to be able to keep the passion ignited. Sex is the perfect way to tell your partner how she makes you feel. Not only does it bring two individuals closer, but also bridges any significant gap that might’ve cropped up over time. As the years go by, you'll keep revisiting and re-imagining the passion you have for each other. And if you keep at it, you'll have a sex life that transcends your relationship’s lack of newness and the physical changes that come with time. A relationship is like a delicate flower. It needs tender and loving care to blossom. By following the above-mentioned methods, you are much closer to ensure that your relationship lasts a long time, even eternity.
