Tuesday, April 1, 2014

HAPPY SPOUSE ACTIVITIES-FOR MARRIED ONLY




MORT'S 50 WAYS TO TALK AND TOUCH LIST REKINDLE THE LOVE
1. Express confidence in one of your spouse's decisions
2. Share dessert with one fork
3. What was "your song" when you were dating? Call your spouse and sing it to them.
4. Surprise visit your spouse at their office or home and give them a kiss... and then leave.
5. Play footsie next time you sit together
6. Learn a new joke today and share it with your spouse
7. Ask how your spouse's day went... and really listen
8. Kiss your spouse upon waking
9. Kiss your spouse before sleeping
10. Caress your spouse's hand
11. Touch your spouse's cheek or hand while driving
12. Rub shoulders next time you sit next to each other
13. Sit on your spouse's lap or sit them on yours
14. Compliment something your spouse is wearing
15. Call your spouse out of the blue to let them know you are thinking of them
16. Give your spouse a neck or shoulder massage
17. Share a story from the news or your day that you thought was interesting
18. What about dancing before dinner? No one's looking.
19. Tell your spouse that if you had to do it all over again, you'd choose them
20. Share a problem - thank your spouse for their concern
21. Play with your spouse's hair while talking in bed
22. Fall asleep holding hands
23. Remind your spouse to drive safely next time they leave the house
24. Call your spouse at work with the latest news.
25. Have a tickle "fight"
26. Say "I'm sorry" about a mistake you recently made
27. Think of 3 ways your spouse has made you a better person ... tell them now
28. Compliment your spouse on your favorite physical trait
29. Play Twister and let yourself laugh out loud
30. Look at your spouse when they are unaware of your gaze ... share your feelings
31. Share what you most admire about your spouse
32. Have a "remember when?" moment.
33. Thank your spouse for helping you through a challenging time in your life
34. Find a reason to touch your spouse when you are in the same room
35. Dig out the wedding album and reminisce
36. Hold hands under the table
37. Brush your mate's hair out of his/her eyes
38. Straighten his tie, being sure to touch him with love
39. Button or zip her dress, being sure to touch her with love
40. Knead the same dough together
41. Kiss in the elevator when no one is looking
42. Express confidence in your spouse's ability to overcome a problem
43. Listen to your spouse's worries - ask how you can help
44. Make your spouse's lunch for the day ... deliver it with a kiss
45. Send your spouse a fax with your special "code words" for I Love You!
46. Turn off your spouse's alarm clock...wake them with a massage
47. Kiss the back of your spouse's neck while he/she is reading
48. Before parting, tell your spouse you can't wait to see him/her again
49. An extra hug for no reason at all never hurt anyone
50. "Spoon" your mate while sleeping

THE TRUTH ABOUT GOOD FRIDAY- REPOST


TEXT: Colossians 2:8

SUBJECT: When did Jesus die?

INTRODUCTION:

Man as established traditions that have lasted 100’s – if not, 1000’s of years

Just because something as been done in the same way for a long period of time doesn’t mean that it’s right

For example we all assume that December 25th is the day Jesus was born

But that’s not correct

And we can prove that according to the Scriptures

The same is true in the case of so-called “Good Friday”

John 5:39 – “Search the scriptures; for in them ye think ye have eternal life: and they are they which testify of Me”

Acts 17:11 – “These were more noble than those in Thessalonica, in that they received the Word with all readiness of mind, and searched the Scriptures daily, whether those things were so”

Is it “Palm Sunday’ – “Good Friday” - “Easter Sunday”?


Or “Palm Friday” – “Good Wednesday” - “Easter Saturday”?

~~~PRAYER~~~

To establish this Biblical Truth we must work backwards:

I. CHRIST ROSE FROM THE GRAVE ON THE FIRST DAY OF THE WEEK

To establish this Truth let’s look at the Scriptures -

Matthew 28:1 - “In the end of the sabbath, as it began to dawn toward the first day of the week, came Mary Magdalene and the other Mary to see the sepulchre”

Mark 16:2 - “And very early in the morning the first day of the week, they came unto the sepulchre at the rising of the sun”

Luke 24:1 - “Now upon the first day of the week, very early in the morning, they came unto the sepulchre, bringing the spices which they had prepared, and certain others with them”

John 20:1 - “The first day of the week cometh Mary Magdalene early, when it was yet dark, unto the sepulchre, and seeth the stone taken away from the sepulchre”

Notice in all 4 Gospel records that Christ was already risen from the dead when the women got there

When did they get there?



“...as it began to dawn,” “very early in the morning,” “when it was yet dark,” “at the rising of the sun”

The ladies got to the grave when it was dark and the day was just starting to break

That is early - Probably about 6:00 AM

What did they find?

All four accounts tell us they found an empty tomb

Jesus was gone - even before the stone was rolled away

Matthew 28:1-6

When did Jesus rise from the dead?

Aren’t you glad the Bible tells us (so as to leave no doubt)

Let’s repeat Mark 16:9 - “Now when Jesus was risen early the first day of the week, He appeared first to Mary Magdalene, out of whom He had cast seven devils”

The answer is - “Early the first day of the week”

The Jewish day began at 6 PM in the evening

Genesis 1:5, 8, 13, 19, 23, 31

“And the evening and the morning were the …day”

A full 6 hours ahead of the start of our modern day

Jesus came out of the Tomb 1 second after 6 PM Saturday


From 6 PM Saturday to 6 PM Sunday is considered by the Jews as the first day of the week (Sun down to sun down)

Therefore Jesus was resurrected for 12 hours before Mary saw Him

He had been resurrected for almost 24 hours before the disciples saw Him

Jesus came out of the Tomb 1 second after 6 PM Saturday

John 20:19 - “Then the same day at evening, being the first day of the week, when the doors were shut where the disciples were assembled for fear of the Jews, came Jesus and stood in the midst, and saith unto them, Peace be unto you” (v.1)

Thus - Christ resurrected sometime after 6 PM on Saturday evening (Ps. 55:17)  

The beginning of the Jew’s “first day of the week”

Mary Magdalene and the disciples saw Him during the hours Americans call Sunday

CHRIST ROSE FROM THE GRAVE ON THE FIRST DAY OF THE WEEK

II. THUS – CHRIST DIED ON THE CROSS ON WEDNESDAY AFTERNOON

The following are 20 verses of Scripture which state that Christ would be dead for three days

And the first one states that it would be three nights also


Thus 3 / 24 hour periods -

Matthew 12:40 - “For as Jonas was three days and three nights in the whale’s belly; so shall the Son of man be three days and three nights in the heart of the earth”

Jonah 1:17 – “Now the LORD had prepared a great fish to swallow up Jonah. And Jonah was in the belly of the fish three days and three nights”

Matthew 16:21 - “From that time forth began Jesus to shew unto his disciples, how that He must go unto Jerusalem and suffer many things of the elders and chief priests and scribes, and be killed, and be raised again the third day”

Matthew 17:23 - “And they shall kill Him, and the third day He shall be raised again. And they were exceeding sorry”

Matthew 20:19 - “And shall deliver Him to the Gentiles to mock, and to scourge, and to crucify Him: and the third day He shall rise again”

Matthew 26:61 - “And said, This fellow said, I am able to destroy the temple of God, and to build it in three days”

Matthew 27:40 - “And saying, Thou that destroyest the temple, and buildest it in three days, save thyself. If thou be the Son of God, come down from the cross”

Matthew 27:63 - “Saying, Sir, we remember that that deceiver said, while He was yet alive, After three days I will rise again”



Matthew 27:64 - “Command therefore that the sepulchre be made sure until the third day, lest his disciples come by night, and steal Him away, and say unto the people, He is risen from the dead: so the last error shall be worse than the first”

Mark 8:31 - “And He began to teach them, that the Son of man must suffer many things, and be rejected of the elders, and of the chief priests, and scribes, and be killed, and after three days rise again”

Mark 9:31 - “For He taught His disciples, and said unto them, The Son of man is delivered into the hands of men, and they shall kill Him; and after that He is killed, He shall rise the third day”

Mark 10:34 - “And they shall mock Him, and shall scourge Him, and shall spit upon Him, and shall kill Him: and the third day He shall rise again”

Mark 14:58 - “We heard Him say, I will destroy this temple that is made with hands, and within three days I will build another made without hands”

Mark 15:29 - “And they that passed by railed on Him, wagging their heads, and saying, Ah, Thou that destroyest the temple, and buildest it in three days,”

Luke 9:22 - “Saying, The Son of man must suffer many things, and be rejected of the elders and chief priests and scribes, and be slain, and be raised the third day”

Luke 18:33 - “And they shall scourge Him, and put Him to death: and the third day He shall rise again”



Luke 24:7 - “Saying, The Son of man must be delivered into the hands of sinful men, and be crucified, and the third day rise again”

Luke 24:21 - “But we trusted that it had been He which should have redeemed Israel: and beside all this, to day is the third day since these things were done”

Luke 24:46 - “And said unto them, Thus it is written, and thus it behoved Christ to suffer, and to rise from the dead the third day”

John 2:19, 21 - “Jesus answered and said unto them, Destroy this temple, and in three days I will raise it up. But He spake of the temple of His body”

Acts 10:40 - “Him God raised up the third day, and shewed Him openly;”

I remind you that the Scriptures tell us that God cannot lie

Titus 1:2 – “In hope of eternal life, which God, that cannot lie, promised before the world began;”

And that it is impossible that God should lie

Hebrews 6:18 – “That by two immutable things, in which it was impossible for God to lie, we might have a strong consolation, who have fled for refuge to lay hold upon the hope set before us:”

The case then should be settled

If Christ died at 3 PM on a Friday and was placed in the tomb by 6 PM on Friday (Matt.27:45, 46, 50)


Then three days and three nights later would place the Resurrection of Christ after 6 PM on Monday

But - as we have seen - the scriptures clearly teach that He rose early the first day of the week (Saturday-Sunday)

Which will you believe?

The Scriptures or traditions of religions?

Colossians 2:8 warns - “Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition
of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ”

Why do some say “Good Friday” then?

What is their argument?

Their argument is that the next day was the Sabbath

And the truth is - that it was ‘A’ Sabbath

The Weekly Sabbath starts on Friday at 6 PM and ends at 6 PM on Saturday

It was a Sabbath day of rest for all Jews

The proponents of “Good Friday” use this argument based on the following scriptures to say Friday rather than Wednesday -

Mark 15:42-46 (

Luke 23:50-56 (


It is important to note here that although every Saturday was a Sabbath - there were other Sabbaths or Jewish Holy Days during the year that fell on different days of the week

But the same Jewish law applied to those Sabbaths also

(no traveling, no fires, no working)

If those Sabbaths fell on a Monday – Tuesday – Wednesday - etc. the same rules applied

Let’s illustrate:

In America we used to call every Sunday - “The Lord’s Day”

It was a holiday

We used to have blue laws so it would remain a holiday

But there were other days that were holidays such as Christmas

Christmas is always on December 25 no matter what day it falls on – Monday – Tuesday – Wednesday - etc.

Several Mondays are designated as holidays each year

The Sabbath was the same every Saturday - but also there were other Sabbaths in the Jewish calendar

No matter what day they fell on - such as the “Feast of the Passover”

These Sabbaths were called “High Days”

With that thought in mind - please consider John 19:31 –

“The Jews therefore, because it was the preparation, that the bodies should not remain upon the cross on the sabbath day, for that sabbath day was an high day, besought Pilate that their legs might be broken, and that they might be taken away”

By “High day” it means that it was not a regular Sabbath day - but one higher than the rest

The Greek word for “High” means “greater, exceeding, mighty”

Now we are told that this High Day Sabbath had to do with the feast of the Passover

With that in mind - consider these scriptures:

Matthew 26:2 - “Ye know that after two days is the feast of the Passover, and the Son of man is betrayed to be crucified”

Mark 14:2 - “But they said, Not on the feast day, lest there be an uproar of the people”

Mark 14:12 - “And the first day of unleavened bread, when they killed the Passover, his disciples said unto him, Where wilt thou that we go and prepare that thou mayest eat the Passover?”

Luke 22:1, 2 - “Now the feast of unleavened bread drew nigh, which is called the Passover” “And the chief priests and scribes sought how they might kill Him; for they feared the people”


Luke 22:7 - “Then came the day of unleavened bread, when the Passover must be killed”

Luke 22:15 - “And He said unto them, With desire I have desired to eat this Passover with you before I suffer”

John 13:1 - “Now before the feast of the Passover, when Jesus knew that his hour was come that he should depart out of this world unto the Father, having loved his own which were in the world, he loved them unto the end”

John 18:39 - “But ye have a custom, that I should release unto you one at the Passover: will ye therefore that I release unto you the King of the Jews?”

John 19:14 - “And it was the preparation of the Passover, and about the sixth hour: and he saith unto the Jews, Behold your King!”

I Corinthians 5:7 - “Purge out therefore the old leaven, that ye may be a new lump, as ye are unleavened. For even Christ our Passover is sacrificed for us:”

The Passover lamb was always sacrificed on the 14th day of Nisan

Nisan is the first month of the Hebrew calendar

There is a difference between the Weekly Sabbath (Saturday) and the Passover Sabbath

The Passover Sabbath always followed the killing of the Passover lamb - no matter what day of the week the killing of the Passover Lamb occurred on


Exodus 12:16; Leviticus 23:7; Numbers 28:16-18

The Passover Sabbath was always the 15th day of Nisan

The Bible states that Christ died exactly three days and three nights before the first day of the week

Figuring in the Passover Sabbath - He must have died on a Wednesday at about 3 PM and been put in the grave of Joseph of Arimethaea before 6 PM

Common sense and scripture can only come to this conclusion

Both Thursday and Saturday of that particular week - that particular year - were Sabbaths

CHRIST ROSE FROM THE GRAVE ON THE FIRST DAY OF THE WEEK

THUS – CHRIST DIED ON THE CROSS ON WEDNESDAY AFTERNOON

III. PALM SUNDAY MUST HAVE REALLY BEEN PALM FRIDAY

The Bible tells us that Jesus arrived at Bethany six days before the Passover

That would be then the Thursday before His crucifixion

John 12:1 states it this way - “Then Jesus six days before the Passover came to Bethany, where Lazarus was which had been dead, whom he raised from the dead”



Then on “the next day” we read the history of the Triumphant Entry of Christ into Jerusalem –

John 12:12, 13 –

“On the next day much people that were come to the feast, when they heard that Jesus was coming to Jerusalem,”
“Took branches of palm trees, and went forth to meet Him, and cried, Hosanna: Blessed is the King of Israel that cometh in the Name of the Lord”

Thus Palm Sunday should really be Palm Friday

CONCLUSION:

The believer cannot believe in “Good Friday” for two outstanding reasons:

1. God would have been in error 20 times when He recorded in His Word that His Son would be in the grave for three days!

How could we then trust in the rest of His Word

2. Six days before “Good Friday” would have been Saturday

That’s when Christ would have been traveling to Bethany (John 12:1)

It would have been a violation of the law for a Jew to travel on Saturday

Thus Jesus and many other Jews (John 12:9) would have violated the law

Violation of the law is transgression - and transgression is sin - (I John 3:4)

Thus we cannot believe in Good Friday for Jesus never sinned

II Corinthians 5:21 – “For He hath made Him to be sin for us, Who knew no sin; that we might be made the righteousness of God in Him”

Jesus traveled to Bethany on Thursday of that week - and rode into Jerusalem on Friday

He was crucified the next Wednesday and rose again on Sunday (late Saturday night)

And That’s The Truth About Good Friday

Joshua 24:14, 15 – “Now therefore fear the Lord, and serve him in sincerity and in truth: and put away the gods which your fathers served on the other side of the flood, and in Egypt; and serve ye the Lord” “And if it seem evil unto you to serve the Lord, choose you this day whom ye will serve; whether the gods which your fathers served that were on the other side of the flood, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land ye dwell: but as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord”